The last finished piece that left my bench was possibly the last piece of jewelry that I will create for my mom. I hope I’m wrong but I feel the need to consider this as a possibility. My parents have lived in an assisted living facility for the past year and I have become increasingly protective of how they and their belongings are cared for. An emerald earring from a pair I had made for my mother recently disappeared. Is it so wrong for me to want her to have nice things? The thought of her engagement ring, a family heirloom, going missing is heartbreaking. On the other hand it is her ring and she should be able to wear it unconditionally, if it turns up missing so be it? The three of us discussed it and decided that I would store her ring in a safe place and create a ring for her to wear in its place.
Not being allowed to visit them since March 12th , my only opportunity to get the switch done was on March 24th. This was the day my sister was allowed to be present while mom was evaluated for hospice.
So I set up making the replica out of gold filled half round wire, a sterling silver setting and a CZ. It was my first time working with gold filled metal so that was a little bit of a different process. The outcome was an almost perfect replica of her heirloom ring. I did leave some blemishes on it so as not to polish through the layer of gold.
The swap went smoothly. Mom’s wearing her beautiful ring and our family has one less thing to worry about.
Jewelry holds so much meaning to me. Each day I select pieces to wear based on whom or what I feel my attention needs to be focused on.
Jewelry has a unique power to symbolize a meaningful occasion, life event or a significant person in our lives. We choose what we wear on our body. It touches us in ways both emotional and physical. This is why I share this with you today, not to say oh woe is me, I’m going through a difficult time now. Making this piece is my way to show love and honor to my parents, the two most important people in my life. The two people who gave me life and molded me into the person I am today.
I love you Mom and Dad XO
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